The stigma, style, ovary, and ovule are often known collectively as the carpel or female parts of the flower. The filament and the Anthers are collectively known as the Stamen or the male parts of the plant. (cf. http://www.naturegrid.org.uk/qca/flowerparts.html). The male and female components exist within the same flower and support the reproduction of its species. And ordinarily, it takes quite a while for it to blossom into a pretty flower. However, in a matter of seconds it can be destroyed.The nature of the flower can be compared to a human relationship too. When the male and female understand and appreciate its unique role within a given relationship,it has the potential to grow and mature.Just like the process of growth of a flower, the relationship can develop beautifully too. However,like the flower, it is also susceptible to factors (such as lack of communications, trust,love, patience, forgiveness etc...)that will challenge its stability. In other words, if a relationship is not nurtured carefully, it can be ruined. This is especially so in a fast paced society where relationships are often taken for granted and consequently, it is not uncommon for relationships to breakdown even to the point of non repair!. Perhaps we should review our relationships, including working relationships, and give some thoughts on its nurture and growth. Incidentally, someone commented that while our technological advancement has successfully brought man to the moon and back, sometimes we may even find it hard to cross over a road to welcome a new neighbour. What an irony!
