Almost a perfect shot

"Hey, look here!" You might be wondering why is it so difficult for the bird to move a little for a nicer shot? "It does not really take much of an effort," you thought. But it remained at its position, oblivious to your suggestion/hope. But if you try hard to push it such as prompting it to the point of agitating it, you'd probably lose the shot entirely! Similarly, do you sometimes feel that people are not responding to your sentiments that you had tried to convey? The issues could be ineffective communication, lack of understanding, faulty expectations, inappropriate timing, inconducive environment etc... On the other hand, if you unwittingly exert your values, you may have adverse reactions. Then, how can you better convey your thoughts and feelings so as to obtain your desired outcome? Can there be a perfect shot afterall? Your thoughts?